Helping Your Relationship

  • 07-16-2022 |
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user_51768205
Other studios have ignored members request for a very long time. men.com is one of them. I did a survey for them and did nothing-still doing comedy scenes. In our face and stupid. So I left and many others as well to include Active Duty. When it was sold, I came back later and was so disappointed at the direction it went. I checked again a couple of yearslater and no improvement. I told them what was wrong to no avail. Corporate does not get it. Lying and ploys will not work in the long run. Reap what you sew.
2022-07-18 23:14
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lyoninwinter
I agree with you 100%. The monthly subscription fees to these sites are expensive and if you are a member to more than one, that's a large chunk of change. Some of these sites just insult your intelligence or seem like they have put no effort into the product. I stay with NDS because I believe they are doing a better job then most everyone else. They may miss the mark every now and then, but they rebound like no other. And they go as far as to solicit suggestions from their members. What I like most about NDS is most of their actors (because they are more than mere models) are versatile. And they stay around for a long time. NDS seems (at least to me) to be working on not only maintaining their standards, but improving on them. Not watering down like those other sites you mentioned.
2022-07-25 10:50
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user_51768205
Thank you, when Dink had AD it was not perfect by a long shot when he changed to studio work it started down hill and then he sold out. With putting a director with a heavy accent it further declined. For a long time it was awful-then Dink was brought back-his guys sparked my interest again, now his people are not being used Why? Foolish move or ploy to get people back? His models had very high ratings for the most part. Since NDS OWNS ad WHAT IN HELL ARE YOU doing?
2022-07-25 17:01
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user_51281636
Ashton Silvers absolutely shines on bottom..the few minutes of him taking it doggy are just hot as hell to me! Hope to see a lot more of him, especially bottoming for some of NDS' stars!
2022-07-17 00:38
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user_51589349
According to the Kinsey Scale, small percentages 10% or less are totally straight or totally gay with the rest of men attracted to some degree to both genders but strongly socially conditioned to be straight. While the negative posters have a point about the girl catching Ashton and Harley in the act and dumping Ashton was demeaning to gay sex, had that Men.com ish ending not occurred, the scene would have consisted of the girl putting sex with Ashton second to her job, Harley giving Ashton something better, and Ashton's same sex attraction being brought out of him. Putting the ending aside, this was a great scene as Ashton is drop dead handsome, Harley hot too, and the sex was great. This scene currently has 61 likes and only 12 dislikes, so the overwhelming majority of BSB members get it.
2022-07-17 00:04
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user_51269318
@user_51589349
"This scene currently has 61 likes and only 12 dislikes, so the overwhelming majority of BSB members get it."

This isn't BSB, but the attitude of your comment exemplifies the BSB mindset. How are you part of a minority group with respect to your sexuality, but you're then turning around and saying only the cares of the majority are important? If that were the case, many of the rights you enjoy as a member of the LGBTQIA community would not exist. You can have your oppinions without trying to silence the oppinions of others, just because you're in the "majority.
2022-07-18 01:28
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user_51589349
Yes I meant Next Door members and not BSB, my bad on the typo. And now it is up to 120 likes and only 20 dislikes. But I tried to be fair and agreed that the minority had a point on the Men.com ending which did imply that gay sex was second rate to straight sex, so I am with you on that. But to condemn the entire scene based on an ill considered ending is like throwing the baby out with the dirty bathwater. My point was not to disparage the minority, with which I agreed with respect to the ending, but to point out that the majority appreciated the overall scene. Nothing more, nothing less.
2022-07-18 23:34
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user_51269318
It wasn't just the ending. She was in the beginning, the end and during Ashton's bottoming. There was absolutely no reason to have her interrupting the sex. Other than to make her look stupid for not knowing what was going on. That's the problem with scenes like this. The women are always oblivious hags who deserve to be cheated on, and the gay men are predators. It's disgusting on two fronts.
2022-07-19 04:05
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user_51162356
The number of sycophants who hit "like" for every scene, and would do so even if ND posted a scene of a woman taking a dump is very high, so I wouldn't put much stock in those numbers.
2022-07-20 00:03
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user_51528146
I agree with you, I like this scene where Ashton his girlfriend joins the movie even if this is a gay scene. This video was hot as hell with horse hung Ashton Silvers and his friend Xavier. Ashton is my favorite man, he has such a huge boner and uncut cock. Could not believe my eyes to see how hung he is and Harley Xavier enjoys sucking big cock. Hottest man to man hard fucking scene for sure NDoor studios !
2022-07-23 07:19
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user_51042258
I love Ashton. Please, feature him often!
2022-07-16 21:24
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user_51528146
I agree with you, I like this scene where his girlfriend joins the movie even if this is a gay scene. This video was hot as hell with horse hung Ashton Silvers and his friend Xavier. Ashton is my favorite man, he has such a huge boner and uncut cock. Could not believe my eyes to see how hung he is and Harley Xavier enjoys sucking big cock. Hottest man to man hard fucking scene for sure NDoor studios !
2022-07-23 07:09
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lyoninwinter
The point of the pushback is the constant portrayal of gay men lurking in the shadows waiting to ponce on a straight dude and talk him into cheating on his unsuspecting wife/girlfriend, when his only complaint about her is she doesn't put out enough. Wasn't that the claim back in the 50s and 60s?
2022-07-16 16:59
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user_51806727
Um ... hello. It's a gay porn fantasy! Methinks you're taking it too seriously. Chill out.
2022-08-10 21:01
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user_51729917
Way too much angst here from a group of people who seem to find a woman in a video briefly extremely upsetting. It was a good sex scene with a little humor tossed in.
2022-07-16 14:20
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Jeremy Babcock - Executive Producer
Hey all. I wanted to jump in and hopefully calm a few nerves. First of all, rest assured, this is not any kind of new norm to see women in the scenes. We often tell stories of straight guys crossing over, and we had the rare chance to bring in a female to fill out the story. We'd brought in a woman for a scene a couple of years ago without any backlash, so it's pretty surprising how upset many people are this time around. Please know we hear you loud and clear and won't be pushing for more content like this. Member happiness is goal #1.

Also know that some of our best content has come when we've taken risks and tried new things. I'm not afraid to fail, and hopefully you'll forgive one misstep. Sorry you didn't like this one, but hopefully our other releases will be more to your taste. Thanks for all the feedback. We're always listening.
2022-07-16 13:26
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user_51269318
Often" telling stories about straight men "crossing over" might be something you should consider reconsidering. Why are these men never bisexual men who are discovering or developping their same sex attractions? Why do these men always have to be convinced, prodded, inebriated or pussy deprived to have gay sex? Nine times out of ten the gay guy in the scene is doing the one seducing. Why do we always have to be portrayed as predators? In our own porn? It's a lot. David Skylar was a straight man crossing over. Look how unhealthy that turned out.
2022-07-16 18:15
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user_51589349
I thought that the scene was great! As I post this, the scene has 57 likes and only 12 dislikes (all of whom are apparently posting their comments). This was a great effort and a really good scene! Do not surrender to the bent out of shape minority, when that's all that they are, a vocal minority!
2022-07-16 22:03
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user_51787422
Aloha,
I started having sex in 1978, and the BEST sex I have had to date was with "straight guys" - Most of them first timers, and they take directions very well, just like in this one. Please keep them coming, it's what I look for most in gay porn - well that and an all natural hairy ass. STOP SHAVING YOUR MODELS

Mahalo Nui Loa,
JBII
2022-07-17 04:19
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Jeremy Babcock - Executive Producer
@user_51269318
"Often" telling stories about straight men "crossing over" might be something you should consider reconsidering. Why are these men never bisexual men who are discovering or developping their same sex attractions? Why do these men always have to be convinced, prodded, inebriated or pussy deprived to have gay sex? Nine times out of ten the gay guy in the scene is doing the one seducing. Why do we always have to be portrayed as predators? In our own porn? It's a lot. David Skylar was a straight man crossing over. Look how unhealthy that turned out."

We're almost entirely staffed by gay males, and have the goal of producing content our members want to see, as well as pushing the boundaries of content we'd prefer to see. Any themes we circle back to over and over aren't based on any corporate overlords or evil schemes, it's simple supply and demand. Our members have enjoyed and continued to enjoy straight guy stories. While maybe not your cup of tea, it's unfair to consider these moments predatory. Many, many gay men have experiences with "straight" men in their younger years. That doesn't make them predatory in any way. Straight men stories are more about the fantasy of wanting what you can't have or shouldn't be able to get. While that's never been my personal fantasy, I've known many gays who LOVE the notion of masculinity. Our members run a wide range of older and younger, and those different ages represent many different coming of age stories and fantasies. Over the last several years we've made a broad point to lose most of the labels within our scenes (the frat boys talk about pussy and girls, yet fuck each other, for example). Even this scene includes a guy who's played for both teams and prefers men. That may not be your story, but it might be someone else's.

We tell a variety of stories, and I could point to a scene for each of your "never" examples. While I"m not sure a straight has seduced a gay guy recently in any of our scenes... I guess to me that's the least authentic story we could tell. Have straight men seduced you? Is that a story you relate to that you'd like to see? I'll add it to the list.

All that said, seduction shouldn't be viewed as predatory. If they both want it and one is more comfortable with the scenario than the other, it's just the same push and pull as any other romantic endeavor.
2022-07-19 17:06
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user_51733932
for me, i would be really happy to see women in these scenes, as long as they are treated with ^respect.
i like seeing women in gay porn and i love women (too) ....

The scene was hot as fuck!!!!!
It looked very real and Ashton looked super turned-on. The asseating was amazing. man!

i don’t get turned on by twinks or twinky types at all ..... but somehow both guys worked in bringing a really hot scene out of each other.

also: excellent lighting and photography here (i have modelled too ; ).
2022-07-19 19:03
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user_51269318
Sorry Jeremy, but the predatory aspect factors in when you have one party waiting in the wings for an opportunity to convince someone else to try gay sex. You have Harley waiting for an opportunity to hear that Ashton is neglected by his girlfriend, and Harley uses that opening to convince Ashton they should fuck around. Then you also have the added wrinkle that they're trying to keep it a secret from the girlfriend. Why do we always have to be secrets? It's one thing to tell stories about straight men experimenting. It's another to tell stories about straight men experimenting because they had nothing better to do, or their girlfriend is annoying and doesn't put out enough. Lusting after someone who happens to be straight is different from lusting after someone because they're straight. A conversation about what kind of stories are and are not authentic is pretty funny when you consider you had a guy getting fucked in the ass, and his girlfriend is on the other end of a door not realizing what is happening. What exactly is authentic about that story?

Masculinity has nothing to do with sexuality. Just like it has nothing to do with topping or bottoming. Reinforcing the idea that masculinity is tied with heterosexuality is a dangerous message to reinforce. That message will never change unless people make it a point to change the message.
2022-07-19 20:09
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Jeremy Babcock - Executive Producer
I didn't mean to imply this scene was in the range of authentic stories we could tell. Far from it,

Beyond that, it's one scene. I'm sorry you're angry.
2022-07-19 20:46
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user_51269318
This isn't anger. It's disappointment that antiquated ideas and stereotypes are being continued and promoted without any regard to how harmful those ideas and stereotypes are to our community. I'll leave it at that.
2022-07-19 23:28
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lyoninwinter
Actually I have been seduced by straight men several times who initiated sex. Its usually right after they find out you're gay, and then the two of you somehow end up alone together with some time. The most memorable one is the one I most ashamed of. A straight co-worker came over to help me pack up for a move. He came across my video collection of gay porn and asked me to put one on since he had never seen gay porn before. He started rubbing himself and even put his hands in his pants for some skin on skin contact. He then suggested (or asked) that we mess around. So we did. Back at work we continued our co-worker relationship as if nothing happened. The reason I'm embarrassed by it is that he was married and I knew and socialized with his wife, and babysat his kid a couple of times.
2022-07-20 09:55
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user_51528146
I agree with you, like scenes where a lady joins the movie even if this is a gay scene. This video was hot as hell with horse hung Ashton Silvers and his friend Xavier. Ashton is my favorite man, he has such a huge boner and uncut cock. Could not believe my eyes to see how hung he is and Harley Xavier enjoys sucking big cock. Hottest man to man hard fucking scene for sure NDoor studios !
2022-07-23 07:05
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CapitalGains
I just want to say i enjoyed the scene. No studio is going to produce scenes that satisfy every customer. I don't understand those that are offended by the plot. This scene isn't more and less realistic than what NDS has already produced. It's as if the complainers want to act as if there aren't any gays with straight friends they secretly want to sleep with. We all know several who are like this. If this scene doesn't do it for them, they can wait a couple days for the next release. If you all already have scenes with similar plots ready please don't throw them away. As the like and dislike ratio indicates, most of us will enjoy them.
2022-07-26 18:12
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user_51592257
Ok guys calm down. I didn't know so many gay men hated women. I don't normally get into twink scenes but these two were really hot. Nice dicks on both of them and the sex was great. The few minutes of the woman did not kill the scene for me. I don't care for men.com any more because all of their scenes now are trying to be comical not because some of them have women. I'm gay but I don't despise women like some of you seem to.
2022-07-16 09:31
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user_51162356
Obviously you miss the point, or, more likely, you understand the point of the negative comments, have no response and so respond to a straw man argument about hating women. I don't hate women, but I do think its sad that so many gay porn studios think their gay male customers want gay sex portrayed as a second choice, only made when the "girlfriend" is unavailable. And its sad you like that.
2022-07-16 11:18
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CapitalGains
@user_51162356
"Obviously you miss the point, or, more likely, you understand the point of the negative comments, have no response and so respond to a straw man argument about hating women. I don't hate women, but I do think its sad that so many gay porn studios think their gay male customers want gay sex portrayed as a second choice, only made when the "girlfriend" is unavailable. And its sad you like that."

So if Ashton said "sorry honey i think I'm gay or bi" instead of saying "i fucked a guy bc you wouldnt put out"; that would've been okay? All of the critics wouldn't be condemning this scene?
2022-07-26 18:31
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user_51655236
Hot, hot. hot!!! The whole set up was great, loved it! Ignore the narrow minded comments who can't appreciate REAL WORLD SITUATIONS!!!
2022-07-16 09:13
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user_51162356
real world situations" LOL, this is a really sad fantasy for self-loathing gay men, not a real world situation.
2022-07-16 11:19
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user_51269318
They're both attractive, hung and versatile. The sex itself was good. There was no value in throwing in a female character and making her highly annoying and unlikeable to explain why Ashton was having gay sex. Walden must be running out of ideas. Or stealing some from Disruptive.
2022-07-16 07:34
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user_51655236
Disagree, the gf set the stage and worked completely!
2022-07-16 09:14
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user_51269318
Set the stage for the theme that he only tried gay sex because his gf doesn't have time to keep his dick happy. We don't always have to play second fiddle or be a second choice.
2022-07-16 09:40
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user_51655236
Lame comment!
2022-07-16 10:54
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user_51162356
I see the director's friends are out in force trying to defend this awful men.com scene.
2022-07-16 11:14
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Walden Woods
Thanks for all the feedback, sometimes we like to try to new things to see what happens. Its not for everyone. I know our writer does his best to make content that will appeal to all tastes. Nothing stolen from disruptive...which I also produce and direct! Stay tuned though, we have some great content coming out on both sites all summer long!
2022-07-17 14:16
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user_51727431
Nice to see new cocks and asses at ND both have all the necessary equipment and how to use it, would like to see more of both but without the female presence. I have to agree with most of the previous comments, if I want hetro sex I'll watch ND hook ups.
2022-07-16 06:42
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user_51734105
I totally agree with the gist of the previous commentors. Don't clone Men.com by inserting outraged women into your videos who are seemingly disgusted by acts of gay sex. I just don't comprehend this and I totally do not understand how it enhances the overall sexual experience.
2022-07-16 03:39
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user_51655236
Wrong
2022-07-16 09:20
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gayrod
WOW! NDS bringing women into your videos, other sites have done this and people have left in droves. Gay men do not want to see women pretending to be jealous of two gay men having sex. Please reconsider or you will lose members very quickly.
2022-07-16 03:24
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user_51655236
Wrong!
2022-07-16 09:45
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user_51162356
And the director paid you how much?
2022-07-16 11:20
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fyre
Ashton is adorable, and it was really hot seeing him bottom while maintaining an erection.
2022-07-16 01:13
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user_51528146
I agree with you, I like this scene where Ashton his girlfriend joins the movie even if this is a gay scene. This video was hot as hell with horse hung Ashton Silvers and his friend Xavier. Ashton is my favorite man, he has such a huge boner and uncut cock. Could not believe my eyes to see how hung he is and Harley Xavier enjoys sucking big cock. Hottest man to man hard fucking scene for sure NDoor studios !
2022-07-23 07:16
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user_51631867
I like it.
2022-07-15 21:56
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riverlur
NO BLANK BLANK WOMEN... IT IS PRECISELY WHY I'M NOT RENEWING MY ANNUAL SUBSCRIPTION TO MENcom... THERE IS SO MUCH FREE PORN AVAILABLE... I'LL BE HAPPY TO NOT RENEW HERE AT NDS AS WELL IF THIS BANK BLANK CONTINUES.... !
2022-07-13 19:48
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Ranger_51649703
It's not too late to delete this from the video queue. Write it off and pretend it never happened.
2022-07-13 17:16
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user_51162356
This is a huge mistake Nextdoor. I don't subscribe to men.com precisely because they think gay men all want to see clips of "straight" men being seduced by gay men and their girlfriends looking very upset about it. Don't become another men.com website, please.
2022-07-13 14:43
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user_51126591
emphatically agree - please don't go the route of MEN.COM - you're insulting the community that helped make NDS subscriber friendly (and a subscriber who's been a member for years, prior to the sale of the company.)
2022-07-13 21:31
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user_51126591
Begging that NDS doesn't mirror men.com with the addition to women in their scenes - any narrative that would include a woman on camera isn't something I get off on - it's not why I subscribe to this site over others. Please.....please....please.......no women in your scenes.
2022-07-13 10:52
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user_51269318
Please don't start bringing women into your scenes to be cheated on and be disgusted at the sight of men fucking. Men already occupies that offensive lane.
2022-07-13 05:48
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riverlur
If NDS wants comments to be respectful... NDS Needs to EARN Subscriber Respect by NOT INSULTING US....
2022-07-13 20:05
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user_51655236
All of u are idiots! NDS has done this forbyears!for years!!
2022-07-16 09:26
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