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I agree with you 100%. The monthly subscription fees to these sites are expensive and if you are a member to more than one, that's a large chunk of change. Some of these sites just insult your intelligence or seem like they have put no effort into the product. I stay with NDS because I believe they are doing a better job then most everyone else. They may miss the mark every now and then, but they rebound like no other. And they go as far as to solicit suggestions from their members. What I like most about NDS is most of their actors (because they are more than mere models) are versatile. And they stay around for a long time. NDS seems (at least to me) to be working on not only maintaining their standards, but improving on them. Not watering down like those other sites you mentioned.

Thank you, when Dink had AD it was not perfect by a long shot when he changed to studio work it started down hill and then he sold out. With putting a director with a heavy accent it further declined. For a long time it was awful-then Dink was brought back-his guys sparked my interest again, now his people are not being used Why? Foolish move or ploy to get people back? His models had very high ratings for the most part. Since NDS OWNS ad WHAT IN HELL ARE YOU doing?

@user_51589349
"This scene currently has 61 likes and only 12 dislikes, so the overwhelming majority of BSB members get it."

This isn't BSB, but the attitude of your comment exemplifies the BSB mindset. How are you part of a minority group with respect to your sexuality, but you're then turning around and saying only the cares of the majority are important? If that were the case, many of the rights you enjoy as a member of the LGBTQIA community would not exist. You can have your oppinions without trying to silence the oppinions of others, just because you're in the "majority.

Yes I meant Next Door members and not BSB, my bad on the typo. And now it is up to 120 likes and only 20 dislikes. But I tried to be fair and agreed that the minority had a point on the Men.com ending which did imply that gay sex was second rate to straight sex, so I am with you on that. But to condemn the entire scene based on an ill considered ending is like throwing the baby out with the dirty bathwater. My point was not to disparage the minority, with which I agreed with respect to the ending, but to point out that the majority appreciated the overall scene. Nothing more, nothing less.

It wasn't just the ending. She was in the beginning, the end and during Ashton's bottoming. There was absolutely no reason to have her interrupting the sex. Other than to make her look stupid for not knowing what was going on. That's the problem with scenes like this. The women are always oblivious hags who deserve to be cheated on, and the gay men are predators. It's disgusting on two fronts.

The number of sycophants who hit "like" for every scene, and would do so even if ND posted a scene of a woman taking a dump is very high, so I wouldn't put much stock in those numbers.

I agree with you, I like this scene where Ashton his girlfriend joins the movie even if this is a gay scene. This video was hot as hell with horse hung Ashton Silvers and his friend Xavier. Ashton is my favorite man, he has such a huge boner and uncut cock. Could not believe my eyes to see how hung he is and Harley Xavier enjoys sucking big cock. Hottest man to man hard fucking scene for sure NDoor studios !

I agree with you, I like this scene where his girlfriend joins the movie even if this is a gay scene. This video was hot as hell with horse hung Ashton Silvers and his friend Xavier. Ashton is my favorite man, he has such a huge boner and uncut cock. Could not believe my eyes to see how hung he is and Harley Xavier enjoys sucking big cock. Hottest man to man hard fucking scene for sure NDoor studios !

Um ... hello. It's a gay porn fantasy! Methinks you're taking it too seriously. Chill out.

Often" telling stories about straight men "crossing over" might be something you should consider reconsidering. Why are these men never bisexual men who are discovering or developping their same sex attractions? Why do these men always have to be convinced, prodded, inebriated or pussy deprived to have gay sex? Nine times out of ten the gay guy in the scene is doing the one seducing. Why do we always have to be portrayed as predators? In our own porn? It's a lot. David Skylar was a straight man crossing over. Look how unhealthy that turned out.

I thought that the scene was great! As I post this, the scene has 57 likes and only 12 dislikes (all of whom are apparently posting their comments). This was a great effort and a really good scene! Do not surrender to the bent out of shape minority, when that's all that they are, a vocal minority!

Aloha,
I started having sex in 1978, and the BEST sex I have had to date was with "straight guys" - Most of them first timers, and they take directions very well, just like in this one. Please keep them coming, it's what I look for most in gay porn - well that and an all natural hairy ass. STOP SHAVING YOUR MODELS

Mahalo Nui Loa,
JBII

@user_51269318
"Often" telling stories about straight men "crossing over" might be something you should consider reconsidering. Why are these men never bisexual men who are discovering or developping their same sex attractions? Why do these men always have to be convinced, prodded, inebriated or pussy deprived to have gay sex? Nine times out of ten the gay guy in the scene is doing the one seducing. Why do we always have to be portrayed as predators? In our own porn? It's a lot. David Skylar was a straight man crossing over. Look how unhealthy that turned out."

We're almost entirely staffed by gay males, and have the goal of producing content our members want to see, as well as pushing the boundaries of content we'd prefer to see. Any themes we circle back to over and over aren't based on any corporate overlords or evil schemes, it's simple supply and demand. Our members have enjoyed and continued to enjoy straight guy stories. While maybe not your cup of tea, it's unfair to consider these moments predatory. Many, many gay men have experiences with "straight" men in their younger years. That doesn't make them predatory in any way. Straight men stories are more about the fantasy of wanting what you can't have or shouldn't be able to get. While that's never been my personal fantasy, I've known many gays who LOVE the notion of masculinity. Our members run a wide range of older and younger, and those different ages represent many different coming of age stories and fantasies. Over the last several years we've made a broad point to lose most of the labels within our scenes (the frat boys talk about pussy and girls, yet fuck each other, for example). Even this scene includes a guy who's played for both teams and prefers men. That may not be your story, but it might be someone else's.

We tell a variety of stories, and I could point to a scene for each of your "never" examples. While I"m not sure a straight has seduced a gay guy recently in any of our scenes... I guess to me that's the least authentic story we could tell. Have straight men seduced you? Is that a story you relate to that you'd like to see? I'll add it to the list.

All that said, seduction shouldn't be viewed as predatory. If they both want it and one is more comfortable with the scenario than the other, it's just the same push and pull as any other romantic endeavor.

for me, i would be really happy to see women in these scenes, as long as they are treated with ^respect.
i like seeing women in gay porn and i love women (too) ....

The scene was hot as fuck!!!!!
It looked very real and Ashton looked super turned-on. The asseating was amazing. man!

i don’t get turned on by twinks or twinky types at all ..... but somehow both guys worked in bringing a really hot scene out of each other.

also: excellent lighting and photography here (i have modelled too ; ).

Sorry Jeremy, but the predatory aspect factors in when you have one party waiting in the wings for an opportunity to convince someone else to try gay sex. You have Harley waiting for an opportunity to hear that Ashton is neglected by his girlfriend, and Harley uses that opening to convince Ashton they should fuck around. Then you also have the added wrinkle that they're trying to keep it a secret from the girlfriend. Why do we always have to be secrets? It's one thing to tell stories about straight men experimenting. It's another to tell stories about straight men experimenting because they had nothing better to do, or their girlfriend is annoying and doesn't put out enough. Lusting after someone who happens to be straight is different from lusting after someone because they're straight. A conversation about what kind of stories are and are not authentic is pretty funny when you consider you had a guy getting fucked in the ass, and his girlfriend is on the other end of a door not realizing what is happening. What exactly is authentic about that story?

Masculinity has nothing to do with sexuality. Just like it has nothing to do with topping or bottoming. Reinforcing the idea that masculinity is tied with heterosexuality is a dangerous message to reinforce. That message will never change unless people make it a point to change the message.

I didn't mean to imply this scene was in the range of authentic stories we could tell. Far from it,

Beyond that, it's one scene. I'm sorry you're angry.

This isn't anger. It's disappointment that antiquated ideas and stereotypes are being continued and promoted without any regard to how harmful those ideas and stereotypes are to our community. I'll leave it at that.

Actually I have been seduced by straight men several times who initiated sex. Its usually right after they find out you're gay, and then the two of you somehow end up alone together with some time. The most memorable one is the one I most ashamed of. A straight co-worker came over to help me pack up for a move. He came across my video collection of gay porn and asked me to put one on since he had never seen gay porn before. He started rubbing himself and even put his hands in his pants for some skin on skin contact. He then suggested (or asked) that we mess around. So we did. Back at work we continued our co-worker relationship as if nothing happened. The reason I'm embarrassed by it is that he was married and I knew and socialized with his wife, and babysat his kid a couple of times.

I agree with you, like scenes where a lady joins the movie even if this is a gay scene. This video was hot as hell with horse hung Ashton Silvers and his friend Xavier. Ashton is my favorite man, he has such a huge boner and uncut cock. Could not believe my eyes to see how hung he is and Harley Xavier enjoys sucking big cock. Hottest man to man hard fucking scene for sure NDoor studios !

I just want to say i enjoyed the scene. No studio is going to produce scenes that satisfy every customer. I don't understand those that are offended by the plot. This scene isn't more and less realistic than what NDS has already produced. It's as if the complainers want to act as if there aren't any gays with straight friends they secretly want to sleep with. We all know several who are like this. If this scene doesn't do it for them, they can wait a couple days for the next release. If you all already have scenes with similar plots ready please don't throw them away. As the like and dislike ratio indicates, most of us will enjoy them.

1+ It would be nice to see more variety. Some shaved, some not, etc. My favorite studio in this regard was the original Chaosmen (also now owned by NDS, apparently). There was a good mix of models, most having light-to-moderate hair. That type has fallen out of favor in gay porn. It would be great to see guys like that return!

Obviously you miss the point, or, more likely, you understand the point of the negative comments, have no response and so respond to a straw man argument about hating women. I don't hate women, but I do think its sad that so many gay porn studios think their gay male customers want gay sex portrayed as a second choice, only made when the "girlfriend" is unavailable. And its sad you like that.

@user_51162356
"Obviously you miss the point, or, more likely, you understand the point of the negative comments, have no response and so respond to a straw man argument about hating women. I don't hate women, but I do think its sad that so many gay porn studios think their gay male customers want gay sex portrayed as a second choice, only made when the "girlfriend" is unavailable. And its sad you like that."

So if Ashton said "sorry honey i think I'm gay or bi" instead of saying "i fucked a guy bc you wouldnt put out"; that would've been okay? All of the critics wouldn't be condemning this scene?

real world situations" LOL, this is a really sad fantasy for self-loathing gay men, not a real world situation.

Disagree, the gf set the stage and worked completely!

Set the stage for the theme that he only tried gay sex because his gf doesn't have time to keep his dick happy. We don't always have to play second fiddle or be a second choice.

Lame comment!

I see the director's friends are out in force trying to defend this awful men.com scene.

Thanks for all the feedback, sometimes we like to try to new things to see what happens. Its not for everyone. I know our writer does his best to make content that will appeal to all tastes. Nothing stolen from disruptive...which I also produce and direct! Stay tuned though, we have some great content coming out on both sites all summer long!

Wrong

Wrong!

And the director paid you how much?

I agree with you, I like this scene where Ashton his girlfriend joins the movie even if this is a gay scene. This video was hot as hell with horse hung Ashton Silvers and his friend Xavier. Ashton is my favorite man, he has such a huge boner and uncut cock. Could not believe my eyes to see how hung he is and Harley Xavier enjoys sucking big cock. Hottest man to man hard fucking scene for sure NDoor studios !

emphatically agree - please don't go the route of MEN.COM - you're insulting the community that helped make NDS subscriber friendly (and a subscriber who's been a member for years, prior to the sale of the company.)

If NDS wants comments to be respectful... NDS Needs to EARN Subscriber Respect by NOT INSULTING US....

All of u are idiots! NDS has done this forbyears!for years!!